18+...The Sex Series : Spice up your Sex life..2

 These are just simple tips to spicing things up, you should go beyond what you read here and make it even better.

 If you missed the first part of spice up your sex life, click HERE

read more after the break.

The Sex Series : Having 'sexcessful' communication.

I'm so sorry I didn’t post this last week, as it is a basic pre-requisite to having an awesome, spiced up sex life.

Communication is key in a relationship.

I can't claim to be an expert in communicating, as emotional issues seem to take a toll on me, sometimes, I feel even nauseous when faced with them, but I have to try and work it out too.

Yes, you are impatient and don't want to be bothered with this whole 'lets talking about feelings' and emotional stuff, lets just go straight to the sex part and work it up like its going out of fashion.

Stop right there, you can't go any further till you understand that, your dream sex life can only be achieved when you pass this stage, and if communication is healthy. Do not expect your partner to welcome a novel way to raising the bar in the bedroom department, if there is no understanding beforehand. 

Do you really want to have an awesome sex life? if you do, be patient and read through, otherwise, just stop now, close this page and move on.

So I did a little research and this is what I came up with.

The Sex Series : Spice up your sex life.

This series is just a pointer to improving your sex life by creating and rediscovering intimacy.

Note that while sex is a way to help you become closer, it cannot replace communication, so if you have issues with your partner, solve it.

Now the honeymoon period in the relationship was over like a decade ago (I’m just speaking in hyperbole) , and everything is so routine and timed, sex if ever engaged in ,is perfunctory, well guess what? you can revive your sex life with these little tips.
Or maybe its perfectly okay, but you just need more ideas to spice it up.

Let’s put back the ‘thyme n curry’ into it I’ll break this one down into smaller posts as it is lengthy.

Last Time we talked about kissing, if you missed it, click here: Kiss or Trick

The pictures you will encounter are not for the faints of heart, they are purely to illustrate my point.

The Sex Series: Kiss or Trick

Stop biting it like that na …ouch, oh my God, you want to swallow me? why is this one grabbing so hard?...shuuuuu u want to suffocate me?...this spit is too much na…let me just assume that it’s the dust bin that’s smelling...please na, don’t break my neck, its only 1 I have...will I have throat infection after this? Hope my tonsils are safe…

These are some of the thoughts I know will pass through your mind if you are engaged in a terrible kissing tryst… and by terrible I'm sure you know better, cos na you nai dey kiss am.

Anyway, when it comes to kissing I'm sure a lot of us, will give off this smug shrug, I hit it well and good...lai lai  a lot of us, goof that job, yes its simple abi, put lips together , smack, slurp n chew?

The art of kissing should be perfected as it gives insight to the type of lover you are.

Notice: What you are about to read will eventually happen to you *winks*

The Sex Series : How successful is your sex life?

 The society we live in has made the mention of sex, and/or sexually related issues such a Taboo to speak about. Therefore, we have a lot of individuals going around with repressed sexual fantasies, expectations and desires.

It is even more difficult for me to write about this since I'm a girl, and many may tell me, 'you have no business in such matters'. Well I shall write about it, as I am seriously tired of 'Tarzan wants Jane Now!' attitude a lot of young men have and think as normal.

I'm writing this as a mini guide for all those who want to improve their sexual success (If you aren't married, use protection sha or abstain).

Before I start this series, I will like to say a few things: